Threesome Sex Fantasy : How Many People Are Interested in Having Threesomes?

A study carried out for the Threender.net website gives a picture of the different forms of multi-sexuality practiced or fantasized by men online. It reveals that forms of collective sexuality such as swinging and threesomes are multiplying and gradually emerging from the shadows. 64% of men surveyed said they would like to have a relationship with two people of the opposite sex compared to 31% of women. Swinging is a fantasy much more widespread than it seems since 1 man out of 3 plans to try it.

Threesomes, from a Taboo to a Fantasy

The study shows that the collective sexuality, formerly taboo, is very present in the fantasies of men. She notes a growing social acceptance of sexual behavior outside the traditional conjugal context.

Apart from extramarital relations, threesomes appears, according to this survey, as the practice that generates the most fantasies. Two-thirds of men surveyed (64%), compared to less than 1 in 3 women, say they would like or could consider having sex with two people of the opposite sex. On the other hand, they are only 10% for men and 5% for women to admit having already done so.

More Men Prefer to Have Threesomes Than Women

This study reveals, moreover, that the erotic power of threesomes is less strong when the spouse is one of the two partners. If the desire to have a relationship with someone of the same sex as his partner remains shared by 50% of men (and 23% of women), only 17% of men feel willing to make love with their wife and another man.

In addition, the survey indicates that swinging is a fantasy much more widespread than it seems. Nearly 1 in 3 men would consider having sex with their partner and another couple, compared to only 13% of women. But, as many people as fantasy swinging, they are, in fact, only 7% to have already practiced.

Also note that for 55% of the participants confirmed that threesomes would have a positive effect on the fidelity and durability of the couple.

This study was conducted by the IFOP, on behalf of the website Threender.net, with a nationally representative sample of 1,020 people aged 18 to 69 years. The representativeness of the sample was ensured by the stratification quota method by region and agglomeration category. The questionnaires were administered via the Internet from June 4 to 7, 2018.